if your boyfriend doesn’t worship your butt then he’s a lame and i’m very sorry you have to deal with that
something i learned in 2013
being completely healed and okay isn’t the product of one massive epiphany. unlearning self-loathing is actually a long, arduous process that involves changing everything negative that you believe about yourself. there’s a lot of rewiring and re-understanding that has to gradually take the place of everything you’ve been telling yourself for such a long time. you have to have patience with yourself.